Cross Breeds

He stopped calling me cute nicknames? We're moving too fast?

Me & my boyfriend, Tyler, have been dating almost 2 months now. About a week ago from yesterday, he had completely stopped calling me "baby" except a couple of times while we were in person. I tried to talk to him about it & he said that he's not always going to follow me around like a little puppy dog, and he will say it when its needed or whatever. He use to say it constantly. I'm becoming worried. I was so worried that earlier this week I tried to end it with him, and he gave me crap about "I work my ass off for you & you dont even understand it and you let people fill your ears with shit. you can talk to me when you realize what i do for me and you just to have one amazing day together" and we fought. LAter on that night we decided that we've moved a little too fast. (fingering...other stuff.) So we have completely cut all of that out and no more "I love you". what does him not saying that anymore mean? and do you agree we moved too fast for 2 months? When I say he's not "saying it anymore" I meant the words "baby" and "babe"

Public Comments

1. Maybe you really moved to far, but fighting with each other does not help either, in fact it just makes it worse! I would suggest to give him a bit space, you sound a bit clingy. I know exactly how you feel, I also miss the guy I was/am dating. Not even sure if we still date. But the more pressure you make the more he gets distant. Believe me! Let him miss you again. Go and do your own things. And of course it is not necessary to always call you baby. Do you call him nice names? No? Maybe he also wants to hear it from you ... But first give him a bit space, space to do things with his friends ... he will operate the time with you later again! Good luck!